Comments on: George Karanastasis. Review of How To Get Her Back For Good http://lovebackguide.com/george-karanastasis/ Get Your Loved One Back Without Resistance Tue, 30 Aug 2011 14:53:02 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: admin http://lovebackguide.com/george-karanastasis/comment-page-1/#comment-175 admin Fri, 12 Aug 2011 16:22:31 +0000 http://lovebackguide.com/?p=23#comment-175 Themis: I'm not George Karanastasis, but I could tell you that you were acting insecure with that woman and that probably turned her off. You probably looked to needy in the meeting and that is why she thought that was better to calm down that relationship. You can't lie to a woman, their ability to read body language is so advanced that they can tell when a man is lying a mile away, so that is not going to help. Your situation is not so good, just calm, relax and start seeing her as a friend. When you are sure you can handle her with confidence, try another time. Hopefully she will be missing you by that time and if she hasn't engaged in another relationship, you will have another chance with her. Themis:

I’m not George Karanastasis, but I could tell you that you were acting insecure with that woman and that probably turned her off. You probably looked to needy in the meeting and that is why she thought that was better to calm down that relationship. You can’t lie to a woman, their ability to read body language is so advanced that they can tell when a man is lying a mile away, so that is not going to help.

Your situation is not so good, just calm, relax and start seeing her as a friend. When you are sure you can handle her with confidence, try another time. Hopefully she will be missing you by that time and if she hasn’t engaged in another relationship, you will have another chance with her.

]]> By: Themis http://lovebackguide.com/george-karanastasis/comment-page-1/#comment-174 Themis Fri, 12 Aug 2011 10:56:52 +0000 http://lovebackguide.com/?p=23#comment-174 Dear George, I am facing the same problem as everybody else. My girl friend break up with me. Please take some minutes to read my story cause i think it is a little bit complicated. It was 3 years ago that we liked each other but we couldn't do anything since we were engaged with other people. Last summer i was divorced with my wife, she new that since we had communication, but as i didn't want to enforce her to do the same think with her husband, i asked her to stop any communication. and we did. that was on May 2010. I was in a very bad psychological position and therefore i started to see some other girls. But i couldn't do any more serious with any girl since i loved her and i couldn't take out of my mind. it was last of October when she found me and told me that finally she was divorced as well. she had a very bad divorced as she told me. and one moment she confessed me that during this period she was with somebody and that guy was her support since i wasn't there, but the same as me she couldn't do anything more since she was loved me as well. anyway we officially started to date since last November. We were together for 2 months and everything was fine. We had some arguments for some issues and those arguments was the beginning of a break up. I was the one who start acting cold, i was the one to be in more distant because i had bad thoughts of my girlfriend being with that other guy and i was reacting "very strange". I felt smothered and i couldn't respond properly. And finally i said those words. "I need time etc.....". During that period she did exactly what you are suggesting. She wrote me an email, she said a lot of bad things about me like i was so little man and that she feel sorry about me because i was immature etc etc. And then she disappeared from the earth. Then After 2 months when everything was clear on my mind and when i realised that that girl is the person is the one for me i tried to go back. i tried to find her. She didn't want to talk me at the beginning but after 5-6 trials we finally go for a coffee to discuss about us. That was on last May. Since then we started again to date BUT at this time she was the one to control of the relationship because as you said the Power in a relationship lies with the one who needs it at least. She felt betraied from me, and usually had a not very well attitude, i was always tried to calm her down and i was always try to persuaded her saying that I love her and how much i was regret to heart her feelings, and how willing i was to do anything for our relationship. Anyway after that the situation was exactly as before but with opposite roles. 3 weeks ago she told me the 4 words: "we need to talk". i was shocked beacuse on each argument i was the one who told her that if she want to be alone i was the one to left, and every time she told me that she wants to be with me etc etc and she didnt want to break up with me. BUT FINALLY SHE DID. BUT after 2 weeks OF OUR BREAK UP i was so desperately, i needed to listen her voice so i invited her to go for a lunch the next day just to see her. I haven't any intention to talk anything about our relationship. Just to see her. She accepted but the day after that she called me and said that she wasn't ready to see me. i tried to persuaded her that my intentions was not to discuss anything but just to see her. that was last Monday. After a lot of thoughs and after i read your book on Tuesday i called her to say that it is more probably to postpone the dinner and be separately. I told her that everything now is finished and proceed our life separately. i was tried to be cool. macho but inside me i was lying. i don't know if she realized this but i couldn't do any more. Please i need your advise as soon as possible because i think i am going to lose my mind. Sorry about my English but i am not in possition to think more logical and clear Thank you Themis Dear George,
I am facing the same problem as everybody else. My girl friend break up with me.
Please take some minutes to read my story cause i think it is a little bit complicated.
It was 3 years ago that we liked each other but we couldn’t do anything since we were engaged with other people. Last summer i was divorced with my wife, she new that since we had communication, but as i didn’t want to enforce her to do the same think with her husband, i asked her to stop any communication. and we did. that was on May 2010. I was in a very bad psychological position and therefore i started to see some other girls.
But i couldn’t do any more serious with any girl since i loved her and i couldn’t take out of my mind. it was last of October when she found me and told me that finally she was divorced as well. she had a very bad divorced as she told me. and one moment she confessed me that during this period she was with somebody and that guy was her support since i wasn’t there, but the same as me she couldn’t do anything more since she was loved me as well. anyway we officially started to date since last November. We were together for 2 months and everything was fine. We had some arguments for some issues and those arguments was the beginning of a break up. I was the one who start acting cold, i was the one to be in more distant because i had bad thoughts of my girlfriend being with that other guy and i was reacting “very strange”. I felt smothered and i couldn’t respond properly. And finally i said those words. “I need time etc…..”. During that period she did exactly what you are suggesting. She wrote me an email, she said a lot of bad things about me like i was so little man and that she feel sorry about me because i was immature etc etc. And then she disappeared from the earth.
Then
After 2 months when everything was clear on my mind and when i realised that that girl is the person is the one for me i tried to go back. i tried to find her. She didn’t want to talk me at the beginning but after 5-6 trials we finally go for a coffee to discuss about us. That was on last May. Since then we started again to date BUT at this time she was the one to control of the relationship because as you said the Power in a relationship lies with the one who needs it at least. She felt betraied from me, and usually had a not very well attitude, i was always tried to calm her down and i was always try to persuaded her saying that I love her and how much i was regret to heart her feelings, and how willing i was to do anything for our relationship.
Anyway after that the situation was exactly as before but with opposite roles. 3 weeks ago she told me the 4 words: “we need to talk”. i was shocked beacuse on each argument i was the one who told her that if she want to be alone i was the one to left, and every time she told me that she wants to be with me etc etc and she didnt want to break up with me.
BUT FINALLY SHE DID.
BUT after 2 weeks OF OUR BREAK UP i was so desperately, i needed to listen her voice so i invited her to go for a lunch the next day just to see her. I haven’t any intention to talk anything about our relationship. Just to see her. She accepted but the day after that she called me and said that she wasn’t ready to see me. i tried to persuaded her that my intentions was not to discuss anything but just to see her. that was last Monday. After a lot of thoughs and after i read your book on Tuesday i called her to say that it is more probably to postpone the dinner and be separately. I told her that everything now is finished and proceed our life separately. i was tried to be cool. macho but inside me i was lying. i don’t know if she realized this but i couldn’t do any more.

Please i need your advise as soon as possible because i think i am going to lose my mind.

Sorry about my English but i am not in possition to think more logical and clear

Thank you

Themis

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